Bring Your Own Weather

It's been absolutely pouring in my city the past few weeks. "I can't remember the last time I saw blue skies," I overheard someone say this morning. Strong currents of water race down each avenue, traffic is a mess, and the constant deluge has taken a slight bounce out of the step of people going to and fro. 

Yet, if I've learned anything it's that having the right mindset is crucial because it orchestrates our behavior, the quality of our relationships, and our fortitude. In the words of Peter Diamandis, founder of the X-Prize Foundation, "It eats everything else for lunch."

Wherever you are and whatever season, remember to bring your own weather with you.

Be Happy Where You Are

A close friend of mine is one of the most talented artists I've ever met. She's worked for major theater and opera companies, toured the world, and from the outside seems to live "the life."

Yet, each time we speak she seems to be in a frenzy. She wonders where her next job will come from, why certain directors won't call her back, and seldom seems to acknowledge her accomplishments. 

As a casting reader for Broadway plays, I spent years reading opposite brilliant actors -some famous but most were not. 

What I discovered is no matter where you are in your career you never not have problems. Your obstacles just change. 

As a result, I've learned happiness is not attained through achievement alone. One must first make a concerted effort to be happy wherever they are. And when unexpected events occur, good or bad, you're more likely to show poise because you've already decided to bring your own weather wherever you go.