Listening

Yesterday, I arrived in Denver to visit my brother for Thanksgiving. I'd been to Denver several times before and always marveled at how desolate it seemed from the airport to the downtown area. It was refreshing to see that there wasn't a compulsion to fill every square inch with an apartment, or storefront.

My brother greeted me in the lobby of my hotel along with my other brother who'd also flown out just a few hours before. We decided to find a place to eat.

We strolled past iconic buildings, busy avenues, ballparks, and trendy shops and restaurants. My youngest brother beamed as he pointed out different places he'd visited, experiences he'd had, and what the city meant to him.

I realized during this exchange how important it is to really listen; to allow people the chance to speak on subjects they know a great deal about and are passionate to discuss. Nothing will make them happier to pass on something they know.

Plenty of Talent

Last night I went to see a friend perform a few songs in an old bar in an equally old hotel on the corner of a quiet street.

I arrived on time without much fanfare and was immediately greeted by my friend's boyfriend and the doorman. One said hello and embraced me with a hug, while the other promptly asked for $8.

I watched all three acts that night in a cramped little room that reminded me of the many black box theaters I  once performed in, nestled between nondescript bars and corner markets in the East Village.

Each musician was unique, talented, and a real joy to listen to. I was glad I'd made the trek even if it was 8:00 pm on a Sunday night.

During one of the performances, it dawned on me that at a certain point there's little distinction between many of those who supposedly "make it," in the entertainment industry.

I would have had no qualms about stumbling across any one of their songs on the radio, or playing in a coffee shop. They were great.

Still, these musicians would likely argue they hadn't yet reached the success they hoped for.

I suppose once can take great solace in knowing that talent in this world is not in short supply.