Embrace Your Strengths

At one point in life or another we may have wished we were wired differently. Maybe you wish you had the entrepreneurial spirit of a Steve Jobs, or Jeff Bezos. Perhaps you wish you understand numbers like Warren Buffett, or could nimbly dribble around opposing players like Lionel Messi. Sometimes we long for the strengths of others because we're told by society we should or because the marketplace places a high premium on those skill sets.

But it's also important to recognize the talents you have that don't come as easily to others. Maybe your gift is understanding people, or patience. It might be working with children, or listening. Just because your abilities are not as glamorous doesn't mean they aren't of great value.

Identify your strengths, be grateful for them, find ways to build upon them, and then find someone to add that value to.

There is Courage in Vulnerability

There is a rather widespread and silly notion that asking for help is a sign of weakness. I would argue it is the opposite.

Asking someone for help is admitting to that you don't have all the answers. That you recognize your strengths and at the same time are a shrewd judge or your shortcomings. It reveals integrity, maturity, and a sense of self-awareness.

What's more, people are usually more than willing to lend a hand. In an interview, Steve Jobs once noted, "I've never found anybody who didn't want to help me when I've asked for help."

There is courage in vulnerability. Don't be afraid to ask for help.